He thinks its my fault that Im upset and that he didnt cause this. What do you think of his behaviour?

I have two small child that Im breastfeeding and I try to make my bf happy so we went out of town driving in my car cause he doesnt have a car so that he can go golffing. Our baby started to get sick that day before we left. But he didnt care and even left the windows in the car open, well we had to wait in the car for about 5 hours while he golfed with his brother. The baby got sicker and the mosquitoes become bad that evening..... Am I supposed to be happy after all this, then he come back after golfing with his brother in the car and says geez you look soo grouchy!!! Then I stuck up for myself and said ya because we had to sit here wiith the mosquitoes and the baby is sick!!! He just got mad at me and yelled at me while we drove home and our other small daughter started crying in the back seat... Does he respect me... I am so sick of this. Now two days later I am sick from the baby and he came in the bedroom while I was feeling well and said `oh everyone looks soo miserable in this house!!!! ` he just swears all the time and I feel like he doesnt care that I am sick now.... He watches tv till 1 am or 2 am in the morning when we need our rest and to top it off he doesnt even have a job or try to get a good job. He thinks he is trying to stay home just because he gives the baby baths and changes diapers. He says he feels so stressed out... what is he so stressed out for I am the one breastfeeding and paying for groceries... but he thinks he is right all the time and I am the one that is stressed out. Golf is so important to him...He doesnt seem like he really cares about me and doesnt want to talk about anything. Now me and the baby are sick then he says we are miserable to be around and he hates this house. sso now after hearing that he wants me to be happy!! Wat do you think of his behaviour! Am I the only one that thinks he is uncaring........