Can someone please give me a few minutes of there time and please help me with this?

me and my bf are together nearly a year now and have a long distance relationship, lately wev been having problems as he says football is his career and more important to him than me and hes even missing my 21st over it, i have been talking to another fballer on fb who he knows of and lives near him but doesnt speak to and have became friends with him, i have no interest in him and do not fancy him and he has even asked me to set him up with a friend of mine i have also never met him but recently started texting him as friends and today my bf went through my phone when i went to the toilet and found messages from him telling me about a job as i am looking for one to move up to be with my bf, but my bf went mad and said he never wanted to speak to me or see me again and said im a disappointment and kicked me out and how he has nothing to say to me. i know hes hurt but it is 100% innocent and in the past few weeks i went on his fb and i found a mail from a girl he was texting at xmas when we split up saying sorry i didnt text bk go on chat x, and about an hour ago he uploaded a pik of the oink ladies apple add and tagged her in it, so he obv done the same thing. i dont know what to do? does anyone think he will come round and talk to me again? i feel so unwanted and so uncared for, what should i do? anyone have any hope? if he cares will he come around?